Investigating Magnetostructural Correlations in the Pseudooctahedral <i>trans</i>-[Ni<sup>II</sup>{(OPPh<sub>2</sub>)(EPPh<sub>2</sub>)N}<sub>2</sub>(sol)<sub>2</sub>] Complexes (E = S, Se; sol = DMF, THF) by Magnetometry, HFEPR, and ab Initio Quantum Chemistry